TEN26 Four Years Ago
Four years ago today I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. That’s the day I discovered a few things about my life: the true meaning of friendship, the love and support of my family, and the strength and peace that only God can give. It’s the day I became a cancer survivor!
God gave me the courage to face it, the knowledge and wisdom to fight it, and His grace to beat it.

Here’s my story ….
A week before I was scheduled to run the Big Sur International Marathon, I found out that that my PSA was a little elevated. I didn’t know much about PSA, but I did know I was in the best shape of my life. This PSA thing must have been a fluke. After competing Big Sur, which is one of the most difficult marathons on the face of this planet, I returned home and had another blood test. This time my PSA was higher and it was recommended that I have a biopsy.
Over the course of the next 6 months, I had several blood tests and two biopsies. It was after the second biopsy on October 26th that it was determined that I had prostate cancer. I refer to that date as TEN26. It’s a day I will never forget. Cancer didn’t freak me out, but the potential side-affects of incontinence and impotency did bother me a little (a lot!).

Quickly I learned that researching my treatment options was difficult. I couldn’t get a health care professional to give me an objective solution based on my age, Gleason score, staging, quality of life issues, etc. Everybody had the best deal for me. I was facing The Great Prostate Procedure Shootout! I realized that it was my body, my life and I had to make the decision on which treatment solution was best for me. So I decided to dig deep. I spent hours on the internet, read books, talked with cancer survivors, and visited one of the best cancer hospitals in the world.
It was during this time of research that I found out about a doctor at Ohio State University, James Cancer Center. This doctor was the only one that would call me back and/or email me when I had questions (which was frequently). We made a connection right away. And after 5 weeks of digging, discussing, and praying I scheduled surgery at OSU. It was pretty simple: I flew in to Columbus, Ohio on Monday night, pre-op appointment on Tuesday, and surgery on Wednesday, and back to the hotel on Thursday, catheter removed on Monday and back home on Tuesday.

Here’s the long story short – I was never in much pain, I was walking around the OSU campus the day after surgery, and my recovery exceeded my expectations. Three weeks after my surgery I was back at the gym working out. I returned to work after 2 weeks. Since my surgery I have run 6 marathons and countless other events. But I must mentioned that I have had 4 other surgeries since that time! I’m the comeback kid (not much of a kid anymore!).

In closing, the da Vinci Robotic Surgical System is considered the finest equipment for robotic prostatectomy and OSU is the premier hospital for this surgery. But it’s more than equipment and expertise. Through my cancer journey I found out the true meaning of friendship, the love and support of my family, and the strength and peace that only God can give.
I’m a survivor!

If you or anyone you know have questions concerning prostate cancer, please call me at 404-939-0348.
TEN26
It’ll always be a mile marker for us all. Seems like forever ago now. Glad 4 years is behind us. Love you.
Don,
This is an awesome recap of your journey over the last 4 years. I think that you are a better person because of it, in that your relationships with God, family & friends all seem to have been strengthened and your outlook on things are positive.
You should be proud and thankful (and I know you are) of the family that you have that supported you through this life challenge and who continue to support you each and everyday as you continue this fight.
You have shown your children,that with God’s help and the right mindset you can fight strong and win against things that sometimes appear insurmountable and be a testament and the beacon of hope for others who may face that same challenge.
Don,
Don’t usually respond to blogs but this one was too good. Great post! Thanks for sharing.
Mike
Great story, great family, and great person.
Don, congrats on the anniversary of being a survivor. I can attest that throughout your journey, you have demonstrated a positive attitude from the time you encountered this hurdle, and today, you are still running strong!
Great post. Thanks for sharing!
This isn’t the first time you have inspired me. I appreciate your willingness to share this testimony. I will wear my TEN26 shirt this weekend in honor of you….unless I forget. In which case I will wear something else.
Don,
Great story. You and your family have been an inspiration to me throughout this entire journey.
Keith